Reason #3: The Garden

School has started, so I won’t be updating as frequently as I would like to. But I’m still going to try!

Anyway, I love the garden. My mom is an avid gardener, so our yard is lush and green and blooming during the spring and summer. It’s beautiful.

One of the greatest things about it is how calm and unworried you feel when you’re out there. Seriously, it’s impossible to be stressed out about anything when you sit on the bench and watch the birds and squirrels and butterflies. One of my favorite things to do is grab a book and sit out there and read. (I can’t really do that right after it rains or in the evening though, because that’s when I get eaten alive by mosquitoes.)

It’s also wonderful to sit outside with my laptop and work on my manuscript. (The best part is when the internet is too slow or doesn’t work, because then I have nothing to distract me.) I even do my homework outside sometimes.

And sometimes… sometimes I do nothing. Sometimes I just sit there, on the bench, and look around me, and breathe in the scents of the garden, and just… think. About life. About how wonderful it is to be alive and well. Sometimes I watch the birds in the birdbath or the squirrels scampering around or the occasional rabbit that eats my mom’s hostas. (We also get a lot of deer that eat the tulips, but you never see them during the day. They come by night. Those sneaky deer!)

Anyway, when I sit in the garden like that, it reminds me of this quote from The World of Pooh by A.A. Milne ( an excellent book, by the way- if you haven’t read it already, read it, and if you have read it, read it again):

Christopher Robin has just asked Pooh what he likes best in the world. Pooh says, “What I like best in the whole world is Me and Piglet going to see You, and You saying ‘What about a little something?’ and Me saying, ‘Well, I shouldn’t mind a little something, should you, Piglet,’ and it being a hummy sort of day outside, and birds singing.”

And then, Christopher Robin says, “I like that too, but what I like doing best is Nothing.”

Pooh: “How do you do Nothing?”

Christopher Robin: “Well, it’s when people call out at you just as you’re going off to do it, What are you going to do, Christopher Robin, and you say, Oh, nothing, and then you go and do it.”

It’s just… so simple and so true. I mean, the best part of Pooh is how simple he is- not a care in the world! All he worries about is his honey. Silly old bear. 🙂

And when I sit out in the garden, it’s sort of like taking a break from life- I can get away from all the hustle and bustle of life, and all the stress from school… and I can concentrate on simple things. Sometimes life is way too complicated… and you just need to stop for a moment and smell the flowers (yeah, I know that was really cliche).

But it’s true.

Taking Action

Time for me to quote one of my favorite poems by Shel Silverstein:

 

Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda

All the Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas

Layin’ in the sun,

Talkin’ ’bout the things

They woulda-coulda-shoulda done…

But those Woulda-Coulda-Shouldas

All ran away and hid

From one little did.

 

~Shel Silverstein~


I like this poem so much because there’s a lot of truth in just a few words. It’s about taking action. No matter what the situation is, just sitting there and thinking about what you should do isn’t going to help. Worse is looking back on something and wishing and wishing and wishing that you had done something differently.

It’s happened to me quite a few times… and I can tell you, nothing is worse than that sense of regret after a missed opportunity. When you have a chance to do something, do it! Don’t wait… because that chance may never come again. Actually, I wrote a poem about opportunity- it’s called “The Visitor.” Check out the Short Stories and Poems page to read it. 🙂

You may have heard a lot about acceptance. You know, that you should learn to accept things for the way they are… and that’s true. To a certain extent. The thing is, you need to be able to accept things, but you also need to know when it is in your power to change things. If something’s happening, and you don’t like it, don’t complain to all your friends and family about how terrible it is- do something about it! Complaining will solve nothing… knowing what to do will solve nothing, if you don’t put that knowledge to use!

All that crap you hear about “one person can make a difference” and “you can change the world”… well, you know something? That crap is true. Don’t listen to anyone who says it isn’t. Don’t get discouraged… just keep trying. It’s like this quote:

“Even a fool knows we can’t reach the stars, but that doesn’t stop the wise man from trying.”

Don’t let those fools fool you. Because there will be people who will tell you flatout that you can’t. And it’s your job not to listen to them and keep trying anyway.

Dream, because if you dream, you have something to shoot for. But don’t forget to shoot as well as dream, because if you only dream and don’t do, nothing will happen. Dreams are the moon and actions are rockets.

Yeah, I totally came up with that myself. Pretty good, huh? 😉

My dream is to get my book published and become an author… and you know what? It’s going to happen. Because I’m going to make it happen. No matter what anyone says.

I found this when I was looking for a song for one of my school projects. I really like it because both the music and the lyrics are great. Usually it’s one or the other, but this is one of the few times when it’s both:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9TlDXSQfs0&ob=av2e

Reading as a Reader vs. Reading as a Writer

Before, when I read books, I used to enjoy them simply for what they were. If I didn’t like a  book, I would leave it at that- I just didn’t like it. But now, it’s different. I notice every literary aspect of the book- if I don’t like it, maybe it’s because the characters weren’t very well developed. Maybe it’s because the author threw in huge chunks of unnecessary information and described all the wrong things.

When you notice stuff like that, you’re reading as a writer. When you’re just liking the book for what it is, or not liking it because- well, you just didn’t like it- then you’re reading as a reader.

One isn’t better than the other. They’re just two different ways of looking at the same thing. Obviously, no one has exactly the same perspective on anything- but generally, either you read as a reader or as a writer.

But no matter which way you read, you will pick things up. Even if you’re not consciously paying attention to the way the characters are developed, your subconscious will be paying attention. And then, when you go to write your own story, your writing will have improved slightly. Then you’ll read some more, and then you’ll write some more, and then your writing will have improved again. The more you read, the better you’ll write.

That’s why pretty much every good writer loves to read.

Next time you read a book, try consciously to pay attention to the literary aspects. Don’t analyze the story or annotate the book! Enjoy it, but just be aware of certain things. Think of a couple things the author did really well, and think of a couple things that the author could have done better. Then, apply what you’ve learned to your own writing. (Gosh darnit, this sounds like school!)

Anyways, the point is that it helps me a lot, and I’m sure it will also help your writing to be even better than it is. 🙂

Long Live Harry Potter!

A picture my friend took at the theater. Yes, that is my arm, and yes, the light is coming from my wand. Lumos!

I meant to post this a while ago. 🙁 It’s been sitting in my drafts pile, waiting to be posted.

Anyway, I went to see the midnight premiere of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2, and I have to say… I was pretty impressed. Yeah, there were a couple things that could have been better (Voldemort’s death should have been more dramatic), but overall it was a great movie.

But I don’t want to talk about the movie… I want to talk about J.K. Rowling, who possesses the true magic- of making her characters and their world come to life. Obviously all the hype about Harry Potter kept me super excited, all the way until the last movie- after which I felt like crying. I just can’t believe it’s over now. I was already heartbroken after the last book- no more rushing to Border’s and standing in line and waiting until midnight- but at least the movies still kept it alive. And now… even the movies are done.

But you know something? Harry Potter isn’t dead at all. He is very much alive. J.K. Rowling put so much life into her characters- I honestly feel as if I know them. I am going read the series again (for the twelfth time), and you know what? It will never get old. Even if I read it over a hundred times. Why? Because J.K. Rowling is a genius.

She wrote those darn books in such a way that the characters are real, that Hogwarts is real, that magic and spells and wands and Quidditch are all real. And that’s what an author is supposed to do.

Read this sentence: No author is perfect. Read it again: No author is perfect. And again: No author is perfect. But guess what: J.K. Rowling is pretty darn close!

Obviously you are going to aim for perfection. But DON’T (and I repeat DON’T) write something just because you think other people want to read it. Do you think J.K. Rowling loves every single word she writes? Of course not. But does she write because she loves to? I certainly hope so.

As cliche as this may sound,

Write from your heart.

That’s what will get you far. But don’t think that because you’re writing from your heart it’s going to be easy! Don’t think that because you’re writing from your heart you won’t get frustrated! Because you will. Quite often. But that… that belongs in in another blog post… for another day.

Today, just keep this in mind:

Capture an idea you love, and follow it through to the end.

Trust me. You’ll end up with something brilliant. Don’t give up.

Reason #2: Friends

Just two of my best friends (along with myself :)). Of course there are many more, and they should know that I am eternally grateful to them as well.

I’m sure you saw this coming as the second reason. Family and friends first, right? 😛

Let me just say that without my friends, I couldn’t live. They always know exactly what to say or do. Whenever I need to talk to someone, they’re always there, no matter how stupid the things I have to say may be.

So, at the risk of sounding really mushy-gushy and cheesy, I feel the need to say I have the best friends in the world.

I’m just thinking about how lonely it would be to have no one to talk to or hang out with… no one to comfort you when you’re feeling low… so just knowing that there are people to turn to makes me smile. I just feel so thankful.

I really think that friends are perhaps the greatest gift the world has to offer. True friends are hard to come by, so don’t take them for granted. Treat them with utmost respect. If you know someone who understands you, who thinks the same way you do, who sees things just like you… well then. You are a very lucky person. Don’t ever forget it.

One of my favorite friendship quotes: “Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life.”

One more- I couldn’t resist: “A friend is like a rainbow. [(S)he] brightens your life when you’ve been through a storm.”

Both of these quotes are from The Friendship Page; check it out if you want to read more awesome quotes.

So, to end on a happy (and hopefully not to cheesy) note, I just want to say thank you to all my amazing friends out there- you know who you are. 🙂

And one more thing- don’t forget, National Friendship Day is the first Sunday in August- this year it’s August 7th!